What on Earth Can I Do With My Life?

There are questions babies don’t ask. All a baby wants is probably some milk, biscuit, toy or some other trivial thing. Also, there are questions old people are not likely to be asking at the moment. It’s either they’ve asked such questions before or it is too late to ask…

Sibling Rivalry in the Family

Sibling Rivalry in the Family Jealousy or competition between siblings can be positive or negative. Strife, Abuse, emotional or physical assault that makes the victim feel about themselves. Fighting is an effort to work out our differences, name calling, uncaring, and kicking (to create fear). Causes Jealousy and competition (even…

Inattentive Parents

Inattentive Parents Parents who lack interest or involvement in the child’s welfare. Causes Poverty Meeting the family demand – the rat race lifestyle. Family break up/divorce that over shadow his/her child need as against the pain of divorce. Parental pre-occupation with social ladder i.e. pastoral work or professional work. Have…

Dealing with Over Protective Parents

Dealing with over protective parents. How do parents manifest over protectiveness? Over protectiveness by parents is the inability or hesitation of parents to allow their children function independently of their parents. They scream and monitor the children’s phone call logs. They have difficulty in trusting the children. They give oversight…

How to Deal with Anger

Anger occurs in varying degree of intensity - mild annoyance to violent rage. It may be hidden or expressed. May be of short duration or prolong for decades in form of bitterness, resentment or hatred. It occurs as a result of host of psychological, physical and spiritual problems. How is…

MUSE 2

MUSE 2 A life of mysteries, Cumbered with an empty system, Defined by time, Laid down rules to uphold, Accompanied by impositions, Lots of striving to comply, The scepter of power to contend, Purpose restructured and redirected, By unforeseen circumstance,s All hope buried in the hands of fate. by Ikuomola…

MUSE 1

MUSE 1 A world of unknowns, Strife-filled for the less privileged, Laced with a lot rubies for a handful, Goodies inaccessible by the streetwise, “Without a silver spoon” one word to describe, No talent lacking, No form of tutelage to harness any either, Destinies await fulfillment, Oh! which way to…